Failure, misery, or adversity are not to be feared for, for me they are just processes of life. In the moments of life when you are living yourself, accomplishing meaningful stuff towards your goals, if these goals are sincere to yourself, focusing on failure or your personal misery is a distraction of mind. In these moments of passion you are thinking about your goals only. That’s a healthy trait of the mind. It’s equatable to obliviousness that most of us exhibit towards our greater selves so consistently.
Contrarily a healthy obliviousness to the failure is the perfect gift, you can give to yourself.
In idle moments of my life I often find myself thinking “O My God, I was failing there miserably, I did not even realise”. Now this kind of obliviousness to failure is certainly a precious one!
